Had a really long chat with Josiah today and his words are really full of wisdom!!!! Oh my gosh, Josiah, u should just come over to JCC and give a talk on BGR!!!!
This is why he thinks that guys should treat girls better:
1st is becoz influenced by my mum lar...all gals deserve to be treated like a princess...at least once in their lifetime
den for my own idea and theory why guys should treat gals better
2 reasons: 1) Gals put in so much effort for looks, 2) Gals go through so much more pain than guys
ok explain 1), many reasons why gals dress up or put make-up etc etc is not really to be hiao or what, most of the time is abt self-esteem (feeling good abt themselves) and sometimes to be pleasing to eyes of the opposite gender. But guys just wear jeans and t-shirt den can liao, but if a gal does that...and don't use cosmetics etc etc, people will label as heck-care
2) everything assuming equal, there are only 3 main differences, work, monthly period (cramps) and 9 month (pregnancy). So if the gal oso works and is a mother at the same time, she has 2 more areas of pain than guys.
So since gals put in so much effort and goes through so much more pain that we(guys) can never experience or really understand, shouldn't we treat our female frenz and peers better?
its not much to ask for...yar so that's my idea
I felt this is SO TRUE!!! Thank goodness for u..at least there are some guys out there who think about the other gender!!!
There's also another thing: Guys need to understand CLOSURE!!! Why? Cos according to Josiah, guys can naturally end relationship themselves without any verbal declaration that things ended. While closure comes usually externally for gals, and gals use it to make understanding of what went wrong in order for the issue not drag.
P.S I totally feel it man!!!!
What do u think?
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